Guess What are you upto...

Hi readers, it's just a game let me ask some questions please say from your heart and just utter a word either yes or no... (Strictly to ladies ... Dear gents, will get back to you ppl after sometime)

1. You have a TV but you don't even have rights to touch the remote.

2. You see the money literally but can't have the freedom to buy whatever you want..

3. You have all the rooms in your home still you are in the kitchen even after the tired day from the office.

4. You doubt yourself whether you are living in your own life or not. Because too many interventions will be there. Everybody else takes waste decisions on your life. If they are asked to take the same decision on their lives, definitely they won't take..

5. You will be taken out but still, you will not be taken care of even a cup of tea.

6. You are not given privacy even for your own things.

7. Your bed room door will be tapped by others even in midnight.

8. When you are taken out , You will have to walk alone , the person who accompanied you will walk fast and separately as always.

9. Unnecessary calls will come without time boundaries. Even when you are on, phone will ring.

10.Always finding any ways to criticize you whatever you do,though you are talented ; though you didn't do anything ; though you care for them.

11. The same exaggerated hypothetical self praised stories will be repeatedly told to you even when you are no mood to listen...

Done with my questionnaire....

If you say yes for all the above questions, I can surely tell you that you are TRAPPED (in the name of Marriage) oops.... Sorry typo... YOU ARE MARRIED....

Attention

It's been so long since I visited my own blog it doesn't mean that I did forget my own blog to spend for my own to express my weird things. On February 1st, was thinking to post a new one regarding love and relationships I was too lazy and my schedule was too hectic so I could get some bad mood at times. Days passed very fast. on February 14th I thought of posting a new post Valentine's Day special even it was hectic on the day. Finally, breakup day came slap day came and eventually  February the romantic month of the year ended and today I got some time to sit and post and even I bet with myself to post at least twice a week. Making resolutions is easy but following those is the very toughest part on the earth. Sorry for the disappointing my readers. I am back to the pavilion. From this weekend onwards, trying to post as many as possible. Get Ready for weirdness.!!!!

If you love me....

If you feel happy,
Share the moment with me!
Always waiting for you to double your happiness up!

If you feel angry,
Think me as your pillow and punch me!
Always expecting your punches and waiting for the volcano to stop erupting!

If you feel bored,
Tune this entertaining fm to your frequency!
Always there to change your spicy mood and bring you back in full form!

If you feel sad,
Lean on my shoulder and open up!
Always giving my shoulders for you to lean on and cry over!

If you feel getting hurt,
Call me anytime and scold whatever you want!
Always there to hear all the bad words and waiting for you to empty your hurt feelings!

If you feel that you love me,
Come closer and hug me tightly,
Always rising up my chest for you to bury your face there and say ‘I love you’!

                                        

Palat.. Palat...

Agar yeh tujhe pyaar karti hai,toh yeh palat ke dekhegi... palat...palat... palat

It's from the famous blockbuster movie 'DDLJ' , the movie that redefined the meaning of love for new generation lovers ; The movie made me to fall in love with bollywood all over again. But still my hindi is like ' bade bade deshon mein aise chote chote baatein hote rehti hain' . Lets come to the point, From the above mentioned dialogue, You might have guessed what I am going to write about. Even Rocket science is not a rocket science,finding whether we are in our love's heart is the hardest part somehow we feel hesitation to ask directly whether you like me or not. Some may ask directly, We may like them but the way they ask in very direct speech and active voice , we will get irritated . Here are the tips to find out if somebody likes us.

1. Just like in movies, They may stare at you when you don't notice. sudden notice of yours on them, they will abruptly change their gaze toward the ground or somewhere. Fortunately which can be found easily.

2. There may be pause every now and then. Even every common dialogue will be in romantic modulation with regular intervals of gap.

3. They ask questions like interviewers sometimes you feel get irritated I bet they want you to start ice breaking session and tell more about you on your own

4.They desperately want to touch you . But they are panic at you to start over. so if a person touches you while talking(Conditions apply: if and only if you like that person :P ) don't take your hands abruptly. They will feel bad.

5. You may be cracking very worst joke of the year, They may find very hilarious to the one and they will be die-laughing as if they are the only human beings in the world who can appreciate.

6. They feel damn possessive on you. Despite without telling it directly  their actions may show you. If the relationship is not possessive, then that is not real one. Even matured relationship has possessiveness.

7.Before proposal, they cant maintain eye contact with you . When you look them at their eyes and talking directly,they will not be able to maintain the gaze with your eyes for long time since they are afraid for four eyes getting locked up.

8. If you are in crowd, telling something nonsense, They may notice you when you don't notice or not. If your eye contact falls on them all of  a sudden, I bet there will be stumble or stammer whatever kuch kuch hota hai in their face 

9.They may appreciate you whatever crap you do. They want to compliment you first .

10. They will accept you whatever you say . no more objections /disapproval/opposition.

11. After working hours, They try to contact you by any means like whatsapp , facebook even texts or calls. They can initiate conversations in texts despite starting trouble, They may contact you for world's silliest doubt. if so, don't cut the call

12. They stammer at words when you suddenly look at them. I bet their heart will be thudding triple times faster than that of high BP at that moment.

13. Just like in ever green movies, if you find your chocolates covers , hairpins, coke bottles and etc go missing, I bet all those will be with them as herbarium.

14. Last but not least, Try the magnum opus palat technique for finding out.

If you feel yes to all the above points, Then admit it that person love you or have interest at you.

Case A: Go to them and spend time with those genuine persons who are much more harder to find.

Case B: If you dont like them, Straight away tell them and start stay away from them

But if you do Case B first and A then , Get ready for breakup stage and book for an ambulance. Hence my thesis proved:)

Signal Violation

Red-------Yellow--------Green

When we think about traffic signals, These are the major colors. In our childhood time, We were taught that Red for to stop, yellow for about to start and Green for go. Nowadays all the colors meant the same I guess everything for Go mode. Nobody stops for red . So many traffic violations happening in our day to day journey. You can ask me whether I obey traffic rules. of course I didn't... Did I? I didn't even  wait for the red While driving  especially in ECR kinda ever free roads. Sometimes violating the rules was  like an achievement for me on that day.  I had been fined for signal violation at T nagar , one of the main congested junction of Chennai. We do have emergency reasons behind every violations. Everybody has emergency, But we think we are driving an ambulance , that will not stop at any tolls. Until I was disturbed by the original incident, I was driving like a motocross romeo.

Th picture I posted here was the junction I mentioned. Main OMR signal through IT express way, you might have heard of heavy and congested signal among others in the same. She was driving towards the way to tiruvanmiyur while crossing the signal  i.e From OMR in order to take ECR, turning right  through ECR link road. Though she was driving medium fast in her green while taking right, Tata Sumo from ECR to OMR right came and hit hardly at her. She was thrown out to an extreme which was diagonally opposite to the bike she drove.All these were happened in a fraction of a second.  Her Face was severely injured , she was bleeding badly , couldn't even get up. The nearby people admitted her to 24Hrs Trauma injury Emergency hospital there itself. I bet I didn't get out of the shock  for nearly a week. After a month she had joined in our office. One side of her face was in scarlet color. she came back to normal as months passed by. When I asked her about the incident, What she told was stung in my heart.

"violating the red is just a simple thing.  But we should not take chance of someone else's green. They may have emergency too. Nothing will happen if we wait for forty more seconds at the max. Yellow is for just starting the engine and about to move to first gear from neutral. Nowadays driving in yellow(3 secs) is a trend.  I don't know what will happen within that three seconds. If you ride, Trust me you are going to kill someone else's life, may be yours one day" 

Someone else's .... Someone else's... This word stuck in my mind for a while even now. Going or halting in our green doesn't matter to anybody. going in other's green definitely matter to somebody. We all should have empathy and conscious about other's green.  Nowadays I do pause for a second if it is red, waiting for my turn. Nothing gonna be happened if we wait for some more seconds. I don't ride in red. Better to say . I don't ride in other's green.

Dear readers,please follow this. Its not a rule .Its our choice to give life for someone else.. Don't drink and drive . Please Think and Drive

Coincidence

Incident means an instance of happening event. Wait, I am not gonna lecture anything. But still would like to tell about some interesting personality I met in recent days. Coincidence defines happening of events unexpectedly or accidentally or what ever. Does Same poles attract each other? Physicists say no. But I say yes they are, only on relationships. If you see a person consider as X, Sometimes the wavelength matches Sometimes Frequency matches sometimes whatever you do, you can see the resemblance of you in the person, both can have same taste and same dislikes too. When you find everything similar, You can feel the boom moment if so , He/she can be your life partner. if X becomes your life partner, you will be lucky. If X becomes a friend of you, You will be much more luckier than former. You will have no restrictions.


Like the same way, I was happened to get introduced with the person X on 17th April 2017. Just like Normal people, We didn't use to have much conversations , might be a starting trouble for both of us. Days passed by slowly. I surely remembered that after a month, We had our first fight. I can say that only fights decide the actual depth of our relationships. The Compromise part made our day. Sometimes We fight /argue more for the compromise part. Okay, Lets come to the point. Same frequency means the same in everything the career we have;The Food We like;Things we have; The pain We share;Even the life partners of each of ours share similar characteristics; The mobile phone We are using right now; The Mobile We had before changing the new one; The dislikes we have; The life problems We share.... Everything is same and similar Even i could wonder at times. 

Still feeling privileged whenever X has doubts on anything or decision making in dilemma situations or feeling insecure about anything or need to get out of mood swing , My number will be in X's call logs. This is the fourth time I have been writing about X. If we would be life partners, We would have been restricted at times and had difference of opinions too. Thank you universe for making us friends . I still astonish that same frequency people has same wavelength in their thoughts though physicists say Frequency is inversely proportional to wavelength . May be this is what coincidence means. or Coincidence happens like this to the people who meant to be together, Friends forever in my case!!!

Hamari Sulu in all of us.......

I was in hyper boredom, couldn't even think of what to do at times. After Long confusion,was happened to watch 'Katrin Mozhi' film in my mobile. The Film made a scar on my heart because I was totally impressed with female protagonist's role, which could be related to every married womens' life. I had this bad habit was nothing that I tried to read almost four to five reviews before proceeding to watch the movie, some times box office collections used to decide myself whether to watch or not.When I came across reading a review, These lines were impressed me 

' “Why should I quit my job? Siddhu is a child and he made a mistake. How does my work have anything to do with this?” asks Viji in a particularly tense scene. The question that remains unasked is ‘why does the father not have any responsibility in a home where the husband and wife are equal?’ 

The impact of this scene is bang on because silence sometimes speaks louder than words. '

Let me tell you the story in my point of view. Jo played a female protagonist role , a housewife with supportive husband and lovable son. Despite she was a homemaker, She always wanted to create an identity for herself on her own. She was repeatedly insulted by her surroundings such as her siblings were in reputed govt job and her dad insulted her in every angle that she failed plus two board exams thrice. The film started with jo participating in lemon and spoon competetion . One thing impressed me was that though she got second prize, she was happy because of encouragement given by her spouse, which is very rare in reality and she stood up on the first position of the victory stand in order to get snapped by her spouse.she used to say 'She can do ' throughout the film.

These words will induce energetic vibes Everytime we watch. one day she got rewarded with RJ job because of her confidence, She started doing her job perfectly;handling the phone calls very well who were intentionally taking the calls to different extent;tackling the pressure from her husband who showed his  office's frustration towards her. Things went manageable till her son did steal his father's phone and was caught by teachers. He was suspended due to his misbehaviour. What my doubt is when parents are going to job If kids do small mistake which could be exaggerated as blunder , why always mother has to be blamed ?? But if the same scenario exists in good way i.e kids do some appreciated things ,father will be rewarded and he will openly talk as my son or my daughter proudly.  What a bloody society. 

99 % of married women are harrassed by family members and relatives themselves for not letting her to pursue her dreams , as if only because of her dreams , things are not going well . Her dreams are destroyed intentionally and her sacrifices are grabbed forcefully. Hope this society should change by accepting these kinda films rather than simply watching in multiplex and passing on...

Anyways the film ended with happy note as viddharth supported his wife to continue her job which she loved desperately and main thing was his trust on her. The husky hello film is many times watchable. In the base note, The tamil version of tumhari sulu sticks in our mind and stings in our heart.  This is not a review but my perspective of this movie.......

Never been in such Chennai ever before

Never been in such chennai ever before...

At 4 am morning..

Riding a roller coaster ride..

In all alone dark route..

Struggling to breathe..

With mist on my helmet glass ..

Wished it could have automatic wiper on it

Chill runs through my spine

Though I covered myself with hard core jerkin..

Heavy kinda vehicles roar to the core..

Still no lights at my backside while my eyes piercing through the rear view mirror..

A shadow crosses the road , it could be the man i guess,in this still out moment..

A bit of fear still in my heart as it is pounding faster than ever ...

during this bold attempt..

My rear view mirrors are getting frozen...

Wiping it in between with my riding gloves

Just red fluorescent labels are viewable as it leads to my destination.

Low temperature induces my adreline ...

Speeding off in my activa with 60kmph to break through the glaciers in front of me..

Reaching my destination with feel of achievement..

As bike roars off, getting time to breathe heavily like there was no seconds to breathe..

Falling on my bed to try to get a sleep..

To think about my motocross ride once again..

To ride once again...

To choke myself once again....

Yes... Never been in such chennai ever before

Nature.....

Drizzling drops on the pond are  welcoming my morning....

Leaves of the trees're swaying hi to me..
Dim clouds set ready to send me back to sleep ..

Sudden vroomed engine of royal Enfield crossed my street which interrupting my nap kinda feelings..

Cool air gives chill all over my spine while passing me..

A hot mug of tea with mom's touch in the cloudy morning ...

Looking towards rain drops on the black background...

Finally accepting the fact if the climate induces your dopamine, writing a one more twilight saga is not  a Rocket science...

My Blog

God has given us two eyes. 

Through which ,Fortunately We can see. 

Unfortunately We all can't see similar things.

Not saying about the vision.

Everyone's Perspectives are different

Bad behind the Good

Good in every bad things We feel,

People We met etc....

At some incidents, We wanted to express it somewhere

May be a Gossip or Writing a diary.

Just like this, I got this as mine

One fine day , got a wisdom to write a blog, just like Buddha got his under Bodhi Tree

All set to create a blog

But couldn't get a proper time to post  a first one!!

Had bet to post it today and I did!!!

To read this , I feel that Harvard's English is not necessary but simple board English will help you to see my perspective.!!

Don't waste your time to find any flaws or grammatical errors . JUST READ IT and FEEL IT....

This blog never says the positive one or negative and also nor neutral one!!!

Just tells my own feelings that could be weird at times.

If you find it weird, I can say only one thing... 

That's what the blog for ....... :P