Agar yeh tujhe pyaar karti hai,toh yeh palat ke dekhegi... palat...palat... palat
It's from the famous blockbuster movie 'DDLJ' , the movie that redefined the meaning of love for new generation lovers ; The movie made me to fall in love with bollywood all over again. But still my hindi is like ' bade bade deshon mein aise chote chote baatein hote rehti hain' . Lets come to the point, From the above mentioned dialogue, You might have guessed what I am going to write about. Even Rocket science is not a rocket science,finding whether we are in our love's heart is the hardest part somehow we feel hesitation to ask directly whether you like me or not. Some may ask directly, We may like them but the way they ask in very direct speech and active voice , we will get irritated . Here are the tips to find out if somebody likes us.
1. Just like in movies, They may stare at you when you don't notice. sudden notice of yours on them, they will abruptly change their gaze toward the ground or somewhere. Fortunately which can be found easily.
2. There may be pause every now and then. Even every common dialogue will be in romantic modulation with regular intervals of gap.
3. They ask questions like interviewers sometimes you feel get irritated I bet they want you to start ice breaking session and tell more about you on your own
4.They desperately want to touch you . But they are panic at you to start over. so if a person touches you while talking(Conditions apply: if and only if you like that person :P ) don't take your hands abruptly. They will feel bad.
5. You may be cracking very worst joke of the year, They may find very hilarious to the one and they will be die-laughing as if they are the only human beings in the world who can appreciate.
6. They feel damn possessive on you. Despite without telling it directly their actions may show you. If the relationship is not possessive, then that is not real one. Even matured relationship has possessiveness.
7.Before proposal, they cant maintain eye contact with you . When you look them at their eyes and talking directly,they will not be able to maintain the gaze with your eyes for long time since they are afraid for four eyes getting locked up.
8. If you are in crowd, telling something nonsense, They may notice you when you don't notice or not. If your eye contact falls on them all of a sudden, I bet there will be stumble or stammer whatever kuch kuch hota hai in their face
9.They may appreciate you whatever crap you do. They want to compliment you first .
10. They will accept you whatever you say . no more objections /disapproval/opposition.
11. After working hours, They try to contact you by any means like whatsapp , facebook even texts or calls. They can initiate conversations in texts despite starting trouble, They may contact you for world's silliest doubt. if so, don't cut the call
12. They stammer at words when you suddenly look at them. I bet their heart will be thudding triple times faster than that of high BP at that moment.
13. Just like in ever green movies, if you find your chocolates covers , hairpins, coke bottles and etc go missing, I bet all those will be with them as herbarium.
14. Last but not least, Try the magnum opus palat technique for finding out.
If you feel yes to all the above points, Then admit it that person love you or have interest at you.
Case A: Go to them and spend time with those genuine persons who are much more harder to find.
Case B: If you dont like them, Straight away tell them and start stay away from them
But if you do Case B first and A then , Get ready for breakup stage and book for an ambulance. Hence my thesis proved:)
