The most neglected topic
But the most important topic.
It's a biological process happens in every woman's body during every
month.
Just think how many hormonal imbalances she is undergoing every
month.
Some ppl say you have to be a woman to understand the woman.
But the truth is you can't even understand what happens though you are a
woman
PMS pre menstrual syndrome
You surf torrents, Tamil rockers and even about useless corona
statistics.
Just once browse this topic
You will understand what a woman or girl really undergoes every month
How hard she is crossing this phase everytime
It's the toughest phase of every woman to pass this without any
irritations and mood swings.
You can see all the seasons on her during this phase.
Ancient people say during periods she has to be in rest and she has to
eat healthy as hormones go down during these days
What people say nowadays , simply neglecting and hurting her by treating
her with untouchability
In some areas, her own kids are not allowed to touch by her during these
days.
What an ignorance !
You people can argue it's a impure blood, she shouldn't enter kitchen,
hall, lawn and even the security gate
Think from her point of view, though she is restricted to the core, she
is showering her love all over her family.
We never know how to express her our love.
How many times we have said love you's before marriage,
And compare with after marriage.
Does it mean that we don't have time for these cinematic things.
Never forget that movie reflects our lives.
It actually means that we have over confidence where she will be going
once she has become mine ...
We never care for things that are with us , we come to know the value
until it goes to someone or vanish ...
We don't need to say love you's daily.
Atleast we can support her during those days by simple things such as
cutting Vegetables,making her sit during her busy schedule whether she is a
house wife or working , talk nicely with her , appreciate her atleast
once in a blue moon.
Remember that she has her own chores
We should not comment on her until we share her works.
Disabled people exist only in thoughts.
If we don't move ourselves an inch to help her , or simply eating her
recipes and commenting the taste not good and worst without going to
kitchen or commenting she didnt keep the rooms clean without sharing her
household chores.
When we do these, of course we are disabled people too.
All she need is nothing but the care during these days.
Here's my first step to come out of my male chavunism which is
created by this society,
I believe I care hereafterwards.. or atleast think this post for a
moment...
Still in hope that you people too..
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