Monday, 26 October 2020

Mensus


The most neglected  topic 

But the most important topic.

It's a biological process happens in every woman's body during every month. 

Just think how many hormonal imbalances she is undergoing every month. 

Some ppl say you have to be a woman to understand  the woman. 

But the truth is you can't even understand what happens though you are a woman 

PMS pre menstrual syndrome 

You surf torrents, Tamil rockers and even about useless corona statistics.

Just once browse this topic

You will understand what a woman or girl really undergoes every month

How hard she is crossing this phase everytime

It's the toughest phase of every woman to pass this without any irritations and mood swings.

You can see all the seasons on her during this phase. 

Ancient people say during periods she has to be in rest and she has to eat healthy as hormones go down during these days 

What people say nowadays , simply neglecting and hurting her by treating her with untouchability

In some areas, her own kids are not allowed to touch by her during these days. 

What an ignorance !

You people can argue it's a impure blood, she shouldn't enter kitchen, hall, lawn and even the security gate 

Think from her point of view, though she is restricted to the core, she is showering her love all over her family. 

We never know how to express her our love. 

How many times we have said love you's before marriage, 

And compare with after marriage. 

Does it mean that we don't have time for these cinematic things.

Never forget that movie reflects our lives.

It actually means that we have over confidence where she will be going once she has become mine ...

We never care for things that are with us , we come to know the value until it goes to someone or vanish ...

We  don't need to say love you's daily.

Atleast we can support her during those days by simple things such as cutting Vegetables,making her sit during her busy schedule whether she is a house wife or working ,  talk nicely with her , appreciate her atleast once in a blue moon.

Remember that she has her own chores 

We should not comment on her until we share her works. 

Disabled people exist only in thoughts. 

If we don't move ourselves an inch to help her , or simply eating her recipes and commenting the taste not good and worst  without going to kitchen or commenting she didnt keep the rooms clean without sharing her household chores. 

When we do these, of course we are disabled people too. 

All she need is nothing but the care during these days.

 Here's my first step to come out of my male chavunism which is created by this society,

I believe I care hereafterwards.. or atleast think this post for a moment...

Still in hope that you people too..

 


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